Sexuality

Sexuality

There is a lot of new and sometimes confusing language being used around LGBTQ+ and this can make if hard for both parents and teenagers to be able to understand each other. Remind them as always that you are here to listen to and support them whatever their choices or future choices may be. Remain open and non judgemental, don’t use sentences such as ‘its just a phase’. Phrases like this will undermine your childs experience and could leave them feeling that they have disappointed you with their choices.

If there is something you don’t understand, don’t be afraid to ask, www.barnardos.org.uk  is a good starting point.

According to gov.uk and the NHS:

• A third of LGBTQ+ young people age 14-19 have a diagnosable mental health disorder
• At least 2 in 5 LGBTQ+ people have experienced an incident because they are LGBTQ+, such as verbal abuse or physical assault

Remind your young person that their sexuality and gender identity makes them, them! Remind them that you are here to listen to them and to support them regardless of their sexuality or gender identity. There are support groups and services specifically designed for LGBTQ+ young people, if your young person is struggling try and find out what further support is available to them. Remain open and non-judgemental when your young person discusses sexuality or gender identity, don’t just use phrases like ‘it’s just a phase’. Phrases like this will undermine your child’s experience and leave them potentially feeling confused and hurt.